Start Before You’re Ready
Most people wait for the perfect moment to start. The perfect plan, the perfect confidence, the perfect version of themselves. But “ready” is a myth. You don’t begin because you’re confident. You become confident because you begin. This blog explores the real journey we all face: starting scared, growing through the mess, and choosing progress over perfection.
THe CYCLE EVERY CREATIVE FIGHTS
Most creatives assume their biggest struggles come from lack of discipline, lack of clarity, or not being “skilled enough.” But that’s rarely the truth. What we’re actually fighting is far deeper: old trauma patterns showing up in new creative seasons.
It’s subtle. It sneaks into how we price our work, how we talk to clients, how we share our ideas, and even how we think about our own identity. And the result is a self-feeding loop that leads to procrastination or complete paralysis.
That loop has two phases: imposter syndrome and perfectionism.
Imposter syndrome tells us we don’t belong. Perfectionism tells us we shouldn’t move until everything is flawless. Both feel real. Both feel logical. Both pretend to be protection.
But the truth? They’re just fear wearing different outfits.
Fear doesn’t disappear. But it doesn’t have to run the show either. Once we learn to notice it, name it, and move anyway everything changes.
Why Most People Stay Average
Most people don’t fail because they lack talent—they fail because they lack depth. They stay busy but never grow. A shallow mind chases stimulation; a deep mind chases perspective. True growth doesn’t come from constant movement but from consistent reflection. If you want to rise above average, start with how you think. Read to grow, not to finish. Reflect more than you react. Seek perspective, not entertainment. Because when your thinking expands, your life follows.
Escape the Rut: Tips for Thinking Outside the Box
As we get older, it’s easy to become set in our ways. When you’ve done something one way for so long, it becomes second nature. After doing something a certain way countless times, we can often develop an idea that our way is the “right” way.
An open mind often leads to more creative results and solutions. If we only entertain one way of thinking, how many solutions are we leaving on the table? Creativity requires loose, flexible, and unhindered thinking.
There is nothing wrong with establishing a certain way of doing things. The trouble comes when we perceive our way as the only way to do things. Curiosity is at the core of creativity. Curiosity requires humility. If we think our way is the only way of doing something, we shut down the idea of learning from other people. If we refuse to learn from other people and experiences, we run the risk of becoming stagnant in our growth.